Why Do I Do This?


People often ask me this, especially in relation to all of the risks associated with this work.

Life is at times joyous and playful, and other times gritty and hard. I've experienced a lot of pain and loss in my life. To provide pleasure for a living is very fulfilling, despite the risks that I encounter in order to provide it.

As a culture we value achievement and hustle more than quiet, relaxed enjoyment of life. I believe challenging ourselves to achieve is a great way to build character and to grow and evolve.  But I've found that it's so important to keep balance. It's important to PAUSE to nourish our bodies and our spirits. Because, stopping to recharge along the way, will actually help you reach your goals faster! It gives me such deep and fulfilling joy to help you recharge and find your way back to your true nature of joy and passion. 

Also, I especially love men (although I cherish women too!). I believe that men need more tenderness and femininity in their lives, in this overly-masculinized world. 

I also believe men are underserved in the world of self-care and personal growth. Building a deep and beautiful connection with oneself & another, through sensual and erotic pleasure, is a profound way to deepen our satisfaction and happiness on the life path.

To slow down and connect with our bodies in a sensual way, and celebrate the miracles that we are each day, is proven to increase our overall happiness in life. I believe that IF men were happier and more relaxed...even dare I say *super-charged with love and sexual pleasure*...our entire world would be a better place. I love the phrase 'Happy Wife, Happy Life'...but I also believe, 'Happy Man, Happy Clan!' (yes, I just made that up. hahahaha)

On the Spiritual side, there's a much larger "Energy" out there that we can tap into, that is often being ignored. It's magical and vast and nourishing to the soul. It can as well be nourishing to the body and physically strengthening. It's the same energy that people tap into through martial arts, Chi Gong, meditation, Reiki and (ideally) religion. I've spent my whole life learning about energy, and learning how to teach mastery of it. It makes me feel connected to something greater than this small human existence...to tap into that energy, harness pieces of it, and guide it into another's body for their pleasure and progress feels like my calling in life. 

Our bodies are a miracle. It's incredible to me how they're designed to be able to feel so much pleasure! (way more pleasure btw, than most people realize is possible) Tantra is about learning how to EXPAND that pleasure and SUSTAIN it. In Tantra, we learn how to tap into that much larger energy through sensual and sexual practices, that empower us to move that energy all throughout our bodies and our partner's body. Tantra takes basic sex and supercharges it. Tantra is so good that I find "regular sex" incredibly boring now!

Tantra is expansive, it's healing, recharging...and truthfully, it's mind-blowing!

I love being able to tap deeper into my femininity every day. 

I love to lift a man toward his goals, through opening up his energy pathways and flooding his body with blissful energy. 

I love creating a timeless, floating, pleasure-vacation for you!

 It's SO deeply satisfying to balance masculine strivings, by bathing a man in soft tenderness, feminine beauty & grace...and wild, wonderful fun. 

And, so, those are the reasons why I've dedicated myself to this work!

****Thank you so much for taking the time to slow down and enjoy life with me!