Etiquette & Expectations: (What you need to know!)
Q: Do You Require Deposits?
A: Why, yes I do, Thank you for asking! ;)
Deposits protect me against last minute cancellations, and weed out disrespectful "Fantasy Booker" clients who have no actual intention of showing up. (sadly, there are many of these!)
*I'm well established in the industry with an excellent reputation, and I've made a post here on how to protect yourself from scammers!
Deposit Amounts Are:
$100 for Sensual Massage ($200 when touring)
$250 for Bondassage
$400 for The Advanced Tantra Tutelage (or Tantric Escort Session)
*Please wait until after I've processed the screening info to send the deposit. Thank you!!
Q: What Form of Payments Do You Take?
A: For the remainder of the session cost (beyond the deposit) I accept cash or crypto.
*Please hand me your donation when you first arrive, so we can forget all notions of transaction, and slip right into our pursuits of pleasure.
*For well-established clients I can take Venmo, or Paypal but please add 10% to the total, as it runs through a friend's account for privacy, & I tip her in kind.
Discretion is very important to me.
!!! Please do not carry cash, or a cash envelope, out in the open when arriving to your session! In fact, if you can bring a briefcase or other bag with you when you come, that will make you look like you are here on official business.
*All money exchanged is for companionship and Tantra Education only.
~ Please avoid cologne and strongly scented products on the day you come to see me. Thank you!
Q: Do you send selfies of your face or do Facetimes prior to the session?
A: I
do not offer "facetime verifications" or send selfies of my face.
Erosguide and Tryst (where I advertise) both require me to pass Facial Recognition Tests, upload my government ID, and upload unedited versions of the photos I post to their sites, where my face in my photo matches the face on my ID/the facial recognition tech. So I have already undergone screening that I'm the actual woman in my photos.
Q: Do You Require Screening?
A: Why yes I do, thank you for asking! :)
*While I am flexible in MANY other ways, I am not flexible with my screening options. So please do not ask me to make exceptions. Thank you for so much for your help in keeping me safe!
What Are The Ways To Get Screened?
In order of my preference...
Option 1. Send me a photo of your government-issued ID via text, Whatsapp, or email; or upload it to my Switzerland-hosted Booking Form here.
Most people choose this option and this is rapidly becoming "industry standard".
I take your privacy VERY seriously. All info will be deleted as soon as I've completed the background check. I use encrypted email, and an offshore hosting service out of Switzerland.
Option 2. Message Me From Your Linked In Account
IF you:
1. Have 500+ Connections
2. Your Profile Photo is Clearly Displayed
3. Also send a selfie that matches your profile pic.
(most people won't qualify for this method, as I do require all 3)
Option 3. Send me an email from a work account that is linked back to a larger company website.
(I can provide an email address that's not linked to any of my advertisements if you'd like)
Option 4. Social Screening: Book a Public Date for $750 and show me your ID in person. Click here if you'd like to pursue this option.
Option 5. Provider Reference ($750): I've had bad experiences with this in the past, so this is by far my least favorite option. If you see that this option has been removed, I may have changed my mind! However, I know that a few higher profile clients have been hesitant to give out their personal information, and I do understand that.
Click here for detailed instructions on how to choose this option.
Need More Info?
~ What Are Your Hours?
Roughly 9:30am-9:30pm (these can vary slightly depending on what time zone I'm in)
*When you reach out, it's really helpful if you let me know your availability in terms of a 'window'. (i.e. "I could arrive as early as 10:30 am/would need to be driving away by 3pm").
~ Do You Work Out of A Hotel or Have a Private Incall?
In West Nashville I have a beautiful private incall. In all other locations, I work out of an upscale Airbnb or reputable hotel.
You will start and finish your session with a warm shower in my thoroughly disinfected spa-inspired bathroom.
*My Nashville Incall has a 2-person Japanese Onsen! (a deep soaking tub). Click here to learn about my Tantric Bath Ritual.
~ Do You Host in a Safe Neighborhood? Is it Ok to Come Early & Wait in My Car?
If you are running early, please wait at least 10 blocks away.
If you are running late, please let me know! I'm usually pretty relaxed about timing, just please communicate with me.
I only ever work in safe neighborhoods, so your safety and privacy have already been considered.
Please follow my arrival instructions to the letter. I've thought this through, and will guide you to the place that is the most discrete and will have the least impact on neighbors.
~ Do You Do Outcalls?
Yes,
I do
offer outcalls, but due to their time-consuming nature, I may need to charge
up to double my normal rate, as I'd likely miss another booking.
Rather than have a set outcall fee, I tend to charge based on distance and time-of-day, how busy I am that day, etc.
*For my safety, I only do outcalls to reputable hotels.
~ Why Are You Such a Control Freak With The Arrival Instructions??
hahaha :)
My best clients understand that this is a risky business for a variety of reasons. I've found that the better boundaries I have, and the more detailed I am about them, the smoother both of our experiences will be.
These protocols are my way of taking care of you and me. Being uptight about proceedures saves us both from drama and danger.
I want to create a smooth experience for the both of us!
~ What Is Your Cancellation Policy?
On the off-chance that I'd ever have to cancel, your deposit will always be refunded.
If you cancel with less than 48 hours notice, I'd appreciate if you could compensate me for at least half of the session.
My best clients cover
the whole cost, (or sometimes more), because they are successful, smart & considerate.
They remember I am the one in the vulnerable position and they always make sure I am well taken-care-of. I'm so
grateful for that!
~ What Style of Massage Do You Do?
I'm trained in Esalen, Swedish, and Reiki Energy Healing. I currently do a light fingertip-brushing-style of massage that's meant to fill your body with tingles. I have been to a highly acclaimed massage school, and although I don't do deep work any longer, my touch has been called "magic" on many occasions!
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~ Can I Have a Few Drinks Before I Come?
I find that Tantra is best enjoyed sober. Trust me, you'll be buzzing and floating the whole time we're together...and likely afterward for days or even weeks!
I will help you get relaxed right away, as I know if can be nerve-wracking to meet someone for the first time!
If we go on a social outing, you are welcome to drink, smoke weed (if it's legal where we are) or eat edibles. I even facilitate psychedelic journeys in legal jurisdictions, so feel free to inquire if that interests you!
~ Why do you recommend 2.5 hrs or longer?
Tantra is about the build. I love edging and teaching you how to move the energy that's building all throughout your body.
I'll be helping you get into a completely different headspace and opening up the flow of energy in your body. This takes time! If you're worried you won't last, I will be teaching you how!
If the session is long enough, you can get into a true "altered state" through the energy practices that I teach.
Longer sessions also allow me to relax and forget about the time, which I absolutely love to do.
~ Can I Take Viagra or Something Similar Before the Session?
Yes, you are welcome to do that, especially if you are over 60.
If you are younger, then most ED symptoms are usually anxiety-based, and I can help you overcome that through Tantra!
~ What is Tantra?
~How does a Tantra Massage Differ From FBSM?
More info coming soon!